Bond, James Bond. 007. A very
successful and long-lasting movie franchise, in spite of or because of there
being so many long action-scenes in the films. Bond’s relationships with M,
Moneypenny, and Q-branch can be meaningful for viewers, even though the spy’s
relationships with women are superficial and of short duration. So, the scenes of
No Time to Die (2021)
prior to the opening credits stand out because they provide more than a glimpse
of Bond in an emotionally intimate, substantive romantic relationship that is
to be longstanding, at least until Bond discovers that the woman has betrayed
him. That even such a film that is so action-oriented would start out so very
deep from the standpoint of human relationships is important because technological
special-effects can be so seductive to filmmakers of action films that deep
narrative can easily be left out.
The film begins when Madeleine,
who will be Bond’s girlfriend, is a young girl. Her druggie mother is shot in
the family home by a villain whose family was shot by Madeleine’s father, who
is not at home. The villain decides to save Madeleine from drowning rather than
kill her too, and presumably takes her under his wing. Decades later, in the scenes
that follow, she and Bond are a couple, albeit not married. Related to her
past, which she has not divulged to her retired-spy boyfriend, she sets him up
to be killed when he visits the grave of a woman he had fallen for in an
earlier film. Madeleine knows that Bond has not let that woman go, mentally, so
James and Madeleine make a deal wherein Bond is to finally let the dead woman
go and Madeleine is to tell Bond her secrets. Bond visits the grave to finally
let the former girlfriend go, and Madeleine’s still-kept secrets catch up with
him when the grave-site explodes, throwing him violently backward.
Even for a psychologically-detached
person such as Bond, the very concept of finality that must be faced head-on in
letting a loved one go is difficult to accept, let along grasp. For practical
purposes, it makes no difference whether the beloved is dead or has moved on,
having rejected the love by embracing the finality of ending a relationship; it
can still be very difficult to let go, mentally. Even in cases in which two
people were misaligned, such as in the case of having conflicting values, coming
to terms with the utter coldness of finality can be difficult, especially if
that follows the cold slap of rejection. In short, the inexorability of facing
finality in finally admitting to oneself of having been wrong about a person
and in having to move on, mentally, by letting the person go forever, can be
difficult to face. To be sure, forgetfulness can kick in with time, so
dysthymic rumination does not go on forever.
In lighting a piece of paper
with his prior beloved’s name on it at the grave site just before the bomb
explodes, James Bond presumably is letting go of the dead woman. He has no
choice, for she is dead, though there is some choice in willing to end thinking
about a person by removing the very concept of the person from one’s current
thoughts. I doubt that symbolically letting go of something mental by
lighting a piece of paper does the trick, for it takes time to pave over such mental depth in an earthly tomb. Even so, Bond makes a valid
attempt to keep his end of the deal. Madeleine fails to keep her end of the bargain; her
secrets become moot when James discovers that she is the person who notified
the villain of Bond’s whereabouts. She set him up to be killed because the villian was threatening her. This is confirmed for James when the villain telephones
Madeleine while she is sitting next to James in his car after he has escaped death! Even though the couple is occupied with driving away from the villains who are shooting at the car, Bond
finds time to drop her off at the train station. “When will I see you again?”
she asks him from the train. “You will never see me again,” he deadpans. He is
utterly without emotion, having been so deeply hurt by her betrayal. In
rejecting her, he has no problem whatsoever with the finality of never. He
is extremely hurt, and has expunged emotion itself from his very being. He is effectively a psychopath.
Generally speaking, a person who represses emotion due to a past emotional trauma has no trouble at all with cutting even a loved one off as though cutting a tree branch off a tree with a power tool. It is very easy for such a person to part ways forever without any temptation whatsoever to reconcile or even look at the other person again. In fact, such a person may be more at home, iro ically, in going through many sex "partners."
Madeleine need not have lost James; she could have warned him of the villian's plan and put her trust in him to protect her, so we can infer that she does not trust him, perhaps because there have been so many Bond women. Perhaps his psychological ease in cutting off his emotions, especially given the nature of his work, also prevents her from trusting him, for a couple counts on mutual emotions to help bond the two people when indifference or possible rivals might otherwise threaten the primacy of the relationship. Emotional intimacy requires commitment and trust, and those require both people making their relationship a priority, especially over sex with other people. The deep and important relationship between trust and emotional intimacy in a romantic relationship is in fact the leitmotif in the scenes of the film prior to the opening credits.
The film's beginning, which is in a way an ending, struck me because when I watched the film, I was in the process of letting someone go to whom I had deeply fallen in love. Trust had been eviscerated to the point that I had no choice but to accept the finality of never. The love was one-sided, so the finality was a sentence mutually-inflicted rather than being applied only by one of the counter-parties. I could not “train” the personality that I had come to love in spite of itself to radically change values and embrace rather than fear emotional intimacy; I had been repeatedly sidelined, lied to, and emotionally betrayed too many times in unashamed, inexorable coldness for me to be able to extend trust. Intimate relationships hardly ever resurrect from such an explosion of trust, and it is rare that both parties are motivated to put in the grueling effort to restore the relationship as a priority. Although mutual love can work miracles, more often than not, one of the people is just fine with the finality of never seeing the other person again, and may even “aww” the other person in pitiful pity for having fallen in love in the first place. Such coldness does not deserve being the object of love. and this itself expunges trust.
So, Bond’s position resonated with me when he realizes that he has to let Madeleine go forever even though he still loves her. Madeleine’s position resonated with me because of the pain she will have to endure in having to accept never. Rousseau famously wrote that we mere mortals are born free but live in chains.
In an action film, such an emotionally-grabbing beginning as is capable of stirring such deep emotions is surprising; No Time to Die demonstrates that even the action genre of the medium can support deep narrative so as to engage an audience emotionally rather than just to titillate by bells and whistles, crashes and explosions. In other words, even action films can touch the human condition, as painful as being human, all too human, can be. Even if by the end of that emotionally intense morning James and Madeleine are praying for the end of time, it is no time to die.